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Girls: Look at other girls together with your guy

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Guys look at girls all the time, especially at the good looking ones. This feels bit awkward when being together with a girlfriend or wife. At the beginning of one relationship I got a nice offer from my girlfriend: let’s look at girls together and comment on them, e.g. their clothes, hair style, bodies, make up etc.

What a smart idea. I did not feel awkward anymore while walking through the city in summer time with lot of miniskirts around. I could simply ask my girlfriend whether she thinks that that girl over there has nice legs. We both look at her and discuss her appearance for a while. Sometimes she showed me girls I would not notice otherwise.

So what can girls get out of this very “liberal” attitude? They can learn a lot about their guy’s preferences, such as what kind of clothes, hair styles and make ups he likes on women. These are very likely his true preferences as they are expressed spontaneously while talking about other women. Over the time, you can take them into account when buying new clothes or thinking about your new hair style.

This game works very well in another country where they speak another language than the language you speak with your guy. You don’t have to be afraid that someone overhears your “weird” conversation.

Limitations and Side Effects

A nice side effect could be that your guy starts to be more aware of your preferences. This may get him thinking about his own appearance/clothing and possibly make changes, which better match your style.

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Mixed Feedback

I received mixed feedback on this article. Guys find it generally good idea while girls do not. I am not surprised. For girls, this game will be interesting if:

  • They have fun while doing this
  • They are genuinely curious about the preferences of their guy

I should have probably given another title to this article, such as Girls: Look at other girls together with your guy occasionally to emphasize that this is not supposed to be a main topic of your conversations.

Girls can also be creative with this game and turn it into something that suits them better. For example, to look at girls one day and look at men another day.

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